Although there are similarities when choosing a partner for dating and marriage, they are indeed two completely different concepts. Falling in love may only require two people to get along happily, and there are actually no plans for the future. But marriage requires not only two people to get along, but also two families to be able to coexist harmoniously, so you need to be more careful when choosing a marriage partner. Let’s analyze what kind of partner is suitable for marriage? A guide for boys to choose a marriage partner.
1. Someone who can teach you lessons at certain points
If you are still relatively young, you may think that you can just choose an honest, responsible and hard-working girl to get married. If you think this way, you are totally wrong. The future will be very tempting. If you have never experienced excitement, you will be harvested by those coquettish bitches when you get older. Maybe you will say that I am no, I am also very honest, and that is because you are still in your infancy. It can only be said that things have not reached that point yet and no one knows what will happen.
What I want to tell you here is: the person you choose to get married must be someone who can teach you lessons at certain points, and cannot just listen to you. Because there is still a long way to go in the future, and it requires two people to support each other, instead of her blindly relying on you, otherwise you will have a hard time.
It is important to choose people who can teach you at certain points. You can understand this sentence from these points Meaning:
1. He dislikes you but doesn’t leave you
It’s definitely a great thing for the other person to dislike you but stay with you all the time. thing, especially when you're both young.
2. Being appropriately uncomfortable together is actually a good thing
Don’t seek a perfect relationship. In fact, there is no such thing, and even if it is, it is short-lived.
In a long-term relationship, there must be some discomfort. When both parties cope with it, this is actually a good thing. It can help you adjust your temperament and achieve a relatively balanced and harmonious state.
3. Unless you have a mine at home, if you are a good person, you will definitely not be able to withstand future risks.
The other party has some evil-looking points, but it does not affect it. Relationships can actually be tolerant because changes are needed in the future. I feel like there is something wrong with being too kind and too good-natured.
2. The character must pass the test
Looking at unhappy marriages, cheating, cheating, selfishness , indifference, making principled issues... These mistakes actually boil down to one very important point: that is, the character is not up to par. Whether it is a man or a woman, when choosing a marriage partner, you can allow the other party to have some small shortcomings, but character issues must not be ignored. For example, see if she is filial and whether she usually likesLying, whether she is lazy, whether she likes to take advantage... these small issues that you usually ignore may cause hidden dangers in your future marriage.
Choosing a marriage partner has gradually become challenging in modern society. It does not only represent your future life, it can also affect your wealth, family, and future generations. This matter is very big, even the most important event in life besides life and death, so boys must think carefully when choosing a marriage partner.
