It is said that there is a generation gap at the age of three. If the age difference between men and women is too big, it may cause communication difficulties and no common topics. But there is a saying that an 8-year age difference between a man and a woman is the best age difference, and two people will be very complementary when they get along. Is this statement reliable? Why is it best to have an 8-year age difference between men and women? Will there be a generation gap?
1. Can provide empirical help
Yanyan: As a girl, I think 8 years is a good age difference. Of course, the premise is that two people love each other very much. I am 23 years old this year. If I have a 31-year-old partner (normal friends have never thought about it), then I feel that I will feel very safe, and I will even give him some characteristics of a boss. Maybe I have read too many novels.
Closer to home, if you really have a friend or partner of the opposite sex, it will be luck for each other. If he has passed your age, he will give you some work suggestions and even substantial help. If you have not reached his age, you will satisfy his nostalgia for youth and let him touch the fragrance of youth despite the pressure of life and work. And because it helps you, it will increase your confidence and sense of accomplishment. Of course, this confidence and sense of accomplishment are mutual.
2. Financial abundance
If there is an 8-year age difference between men and women, the younger one may be the one I had just graduated, had little work experience and little financial savings, so I probably relied more on my family. But the older person may have been working for a longer time and has better social experience and economic conditions. If two people are together, they will be more financially prosperous.
If there is no material problem between a man and a woman with an 8-year age difference, then whether they can live happily together depends on the spiritual aspect, mainly the relationship, because it is not clear how you met and how deep the relationship is. , do you get along happily? If the material conditions are good, two people get along, and are happy, that's fine. As for whether you can control it or not, what will you do when you get older? To be realistic, if you can't control it, even if you are younger than you, you can't control it. As for old age, you can't control it. What should I do when I get older? It's only 8 years old. That doesn't matter. Besides, it's important whether the relationship is deep or not. Can you accept it if it's someone else? Ask your own heart.
Summary: In fact, the 8-year age gap between men and women is not particularly large. The key is to look at the character and whether it can reflect the expected qualities of older people. Tolerance, love, care, or whether you have the same interests, hobbies, and life concepts... Living in the same era, there are many factors that affect marriage, but age is the least important.
Marriage is always the responsibility of both parties. If you are older, you should be able to reflect the qualities you should have, such as career, responsibility, family awareness, and be able to take care of you; if you are younger, you should grow up as soon as possible and adapt to the role change from a girl to a wife. After all, no one can stop forever. At the age of 20.
