Some fans asked: Why do two people who love each other always quarrel? I don’t know if you have ever encountered this situation. Today I will analyze what causes two people to always quarrel. If you are also troubled by this, Just don't walk away.
I have summarized 12 common reasons for quarrels:
1. Sense of superiority
< p> The way his partner treats him or her makes him feel that he is stupid and inferior; he cannot stand that his partner always acts condescending and always feels that he knows more than his partner and does everything better than his partner (fact.
(This may not necessarily be the case);
2. Control, jealousy, or over-dependence
One party in an intimate relationship excessively demands time and attention from the partner, which usually manifests as jealousy, control Strong desire and excessive dependence.
For example: fear of the emergence of competitors, blocking or prohibiting partners from normal interactions with the opposite sex; requiring partners to "report at all times", controlling the behavior and time of their partners' lives; often relying on their partners to maintain a normal life, etc. wait.
3. Feeling neglected, rejected, or believing that your partner is unreliable:
Feeling that your emotions are not being noticed or taken care of, you are not expressing love to yourself, and it is difficult to get it when you need it. Comfort and more.
4. Failed expectations
The performance of your partner is far from what you expect and the ideal partner.
5. Time management
Your partner spends too much time on mobile phones, computer games, or other leisure and entertainment activities, and lacks high-quality companionship.
6. Violence
Insults, personal attacks, verbal violence; pushing, physical violence, etc.;
7. Infidelity
Mental or physical cheating, being too close to a third person outside the intimate relationship, etc.;
8. Housework
Not taking the initiative to help with housework, cleaning, carrying heavy objects, etc.;
9. Excessive concern about personal appearance
Excessive anxiety about appearance, always focusing on oneself hair, body or face;
10. Emotional instability
Emotions are unstable, irritable and irritable;
11. X life is not harmonious
Resisting sexual life, showing no interest in partner, or not taking into account partner's feelings in sexual aspects;
12. Easily showing sexual desire for "others"
Often talks about and praises the charm of "others", often treats "others" as sexual fantasy objects, and is obsessed with fantasizing about a certain celebrity/star, etc.;
Comparing the above common reasons and recalling the recent quarrels, we can more easily identify the main aspects of relationship problems and make targeted self-adjustments or communicate with both parties. If we encounter problems during the adjustment process If you have difficulty, you can message me privately and let me help you.