Question: My girlfriend and I were together during the National Day last year. It was the first anniversary a few days ago, and I wanted to take advantage of the first anniversary to go to her house to play with her. After our date and chat, I took her home. When I arrived at the door, her courtyard door opened. Her parents were both at home, and then her parents invited me in. I entered the yard calmly, politely greeted her parents, "Hello uncle and aunt", and followed her into the yard where her family lived.
Entering the yard, I took a closer look at the yard. It was spacious and there was a big tree. I followed her into her house one after another. The house was neat and clean with brown floors and tables. Kiwi fruit, and three uneaten pieces of grapefruit. On the table on the north side were two building blocks that she put together with her own hands. She took a brief look around, then looked at the "vegetable garden" and the basketball court. Just as she was about to leave the door, her father pulled a small cart to pull floor tiles toward the south. At this time, he wanted to help but did not say anything, so he left her house. She walked me to the gate of the community, and after seeing her turn around and go in, I left too.
After I got home, I asked about this and asked her: I just came into your house and sat for a while, how do your parents feel about me? How about it? What did you say? Her parents said they were "incompatible" and "firmly disagreed with us being together." Now my girlfriend is also in trouble. I don’t know how to convince my parents to accept me. What should I do, guys? Waiting online, very urgent!
How to solve the problem when your girlfriend’s parents strongly disagree
Answer: In fact, judging from your description when you met your girlfriend’s parents, it is indeed full of flaws. I will point them out for you one by one below:< /p>
Usually when we go to the woman’s house for the first time, we must prepare gifts. This is a kind of etiquette. If you just happen to be passing by and the door opens and someone invites you in, then you have to explain, "I was in a hurry and didn't prepare a gift this time. I'm so sorry, uncle and aunt. You see, I didn't think it through well. Please bear with me." At least You have to have an attitude. Otherwise, you would just take a quick look at someone's home, just like inspecting the work. It would be quite inexplicable and give people a bad feeling. This is number one.
Secondly, when you watch her dad working, even if you pretend to ask if he can help, usually people will be embarrassed to order you around the first time they meet you. You were clearly thinking about whether you wanted to help, but you didn't express it at all. You also missed the second opportunity to leave a good impression on others. No matter whether you want to help or not say it out loud, others will not know your complicated inner activities.
Your girlfriend’s parents say that she is “not a good match” and “firmly disagrees with you being together”, which may be because they think you: First , it’s impolite to go empty-handed; second, you have no eyesight, and no work in your eyes; third, it may just be a literal meaning, thinking that your height and appearance are not worthy of someone else’s daughter. In short, I don’t like you or have a good impression, so I naturally don’t want my daughter to continue dating you. Unless you can turn them aroundYour impression, otherwise it would be quite difficult to get the consent of your girlfriend’s parents.
