No matter how good the relationship is, there will be a dull period, and this period is usually about three months after the relationship. At this time, if you still keep chatting in the name of maintaining the relationship, it will only increase the anxiety of the two people. feeling and fatigue. When the relationship reaches its dull period after three months, how do you regain the feeling of being in love?
First of all, We don’t have to force ourselves to chat, and relationships are not maintained by chatting. The meaning of being a couple is that we have nothing to say face to face but no one feels embarrassed.
The meaning of that person’s existence is that you can have nothing to say, that you can be silent, and that you can immerse yourself in making jokes all afternoon without having to deliberately please anyone or find any topics to talk about.
And when the relationship enters a dull period, it also means that you have entered a stable period. You don’t want the two of you to go through the storm, you just want to sit quietly, and each other understands the other person’s heart. Live by yourself.
If you are worried that the other party misunderstands you, or that the other party has the same confusion, then you can have a frank chat and tell her that your relationship has entered a stable period. You don't need to be tired of being together every day to feel at ease. You don't need to deliberately find topics to maintain the relationship. Just let nature take its course and say what you have to say, because these days and years are nothing compared to the days you will experience in the future.
In the beginning of a relationship, girls often enter the dull period three months earlier than boys. When a girl It has entered a dull period, but boys are still feeling fresh. It is obvious that this is out of balance, and if you don't correct the balance, the only result will be a breakup.
The correct operation should be to leave time for yourself, don’t always focus on girls. We have said before that a mature man should focus on himself to improve himself, rather than on himself. I hang around girls every day.
It is not her fault that the girl entered the dull period early, because everyone is like this. Find out what you are not doing well enough, correct your reasons, and then communicate with the girl.
Of course, in addition to girls sometimes entering the dull period early, it may also happen that boys enter the dull period first.
There are some brothers who have entered a dull period, but the girl still wants to enjoy the ambiguity, so you feel very tired and want to "the battery is out, just turn it on."
In You will always encounter this phenomenon before or after you fall in love with a girl. The specific manifestation is that the girl is too clingy to you.
The reason why your girlfriend is too clingy to you is because she wants to gain a sense of security and exclusiveness from you. At this time youYour emotions are out of balance, so you have to do something to balance them.
But if you are just being clingy, the final result will definitely be a breakup, and you still need to calm down and have a chat with your girlfriend.
