Sometimes the relationship between husband and wife is very good, but many people tend not to pay attention to propriety and do things that affect the relationship between husband and wife, causing the originally harmonious relationship between husband and wife to drift apart. In fact, the relationship between husband and wife also needs to be maintained. Below I will share with you things that no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, you should not do it. Don’t let some unnecessary trivial things affect the relationship between you.
No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, don’t do these five things
1. Compare your ex with your partner
I can understand your idea of ????renouncing the relationship early, talking about your ex Either you feel there is no need to hide it, or you want your partner to treat you better. Or you can tell your ex how bad he was to you, so that your partner can love you more and treat you twice as much. Nothing more than these two situations. But let me tell you, as soon as you tell your partner, you will know your bottom line instantly. Originally, they could treat you better, but as soon as they heard that your ex made you a late-night snack and you still remember it so much, then you The gift ceiling is just a late night snack.
2. Talk about the bad things at home
No matter what bad things happen at home, Qian Don't talk to your partner about it. Maybe you have good intentions and think that we are all one family, and understanding this may help your family. But if your partner doesn’t even mention it, why are you helping, not to mention that you may not be able to understand it. In the end, it’s thankless, and if you feel uncomfortable, say something about your family. They are close relatives, so can you expect your partner to stand up for you?
3. Your family’s evaluation of your partner
The most important thing here is your family’s evaluation of your partner. Just know it. Don’t say anything without reservation. If I really can't help but say nice things, but don't say unpleasant things after that. After all, you still have to get along with them in the future, and it won't be easy to get along with them if they break up.
4. Don’t deny your partner
No matter you are a man or a woman, you cannot deny your partner. You are useless, you are a loser, and you can’t do anything. Don't really think that if you hit him like this, he will make progress. Words will give people a sense of belief. If he stays in the belief that he is not good for a long time, he will fail. At this time, there is another person who thinks he is good. I don’t need to tell you the plot behind it.
5. Mention divorce casually
If there are emotions or anger between husband and wife, what do you say? I can understand everything, but divorce cannot be said easily. It might act as a deterrent at first. But the side effects of this are quite serious. As long as you mention it, it is equivalent to telling him that I may divorce you in the future, so be prepared. When the time comes when they are really ready, do you think you can’t leave?
Let me tell you, 99% of the problems in marriage can be solved.Don’t act impulsively, so no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, don’t do these five things and keep them in mind, otherwise you may be the one riding the tiger and unable to get off.
