Quarrels are inevitable between lovers, but every time after a quarrel, my girlfriend always asks me why I ignore her. This question made me think deeply, so I decided to write an article to answer her.
1. Failure to calm down in time
During a quarrel, emotions tend to rise, and we all say some hurtful words. When you asked me why I ignored you, it might be because I haven't completely calmed down yet and needed some time to calm down. Only when I regain my composure will I be able to communicate with you better.
2. Fear of verbal harm
When we quarrel, we often attack each other with sharp words . And I choose to ignore you, maybe because I am afraid that my words will hurt you. I know you are the person closest to me, and I don’t want to say something I regret in anger, so I choose to remain silent.
3. Need time to organize my thoughts
After a fight, my thoughts often become confused and I need some time to organize my thoughts. When you asked me why I ignored you, it might be because I was still thinking about the reasons for our quarrel and how to solve it. Only after I have clarified these issues can I communicate effectively with you.
4. Want to avoid bigger quarrels
Sometimes, the quarrel will become more and more intense, and neither party will give in. In this case, I chose to ignore you because I wanted to avoid a bigger argument. I believe that time can cool down the emotions of both parties, and it may be more rational and effective to have a conversation until we have both calmed down.
5. Fear of hurting feelings
The relationship between us is very important to me, and I don’t want to The bond between us was damaged because of a fight. When you ask me why I am ignoring you, it may be because I am afraid that my words or actions will hurt our relationship. So I chose to remain silent to avoid worsening the situation.
6. Hope to give each other some space
After the quarrel, I think we both need some time and space to calm down. When you ask me why I am ignoring you, it may be because I want to give each other some time alone so that we can both reflect on our words and deeds and re-examine our relationship. Only on this basis can we solve problems better.
7. Want to find a better solution
After every quarrel, I will think about how to find a better solution to avoid similar quarrels from happening again. When you ask me why I am ignoring you, it may be because I am thinking about how to improve myself and the way we communicate. I hope to passBy doing this, we can build healthier, more stable relationships.
When my girlfriend asked me why I ignored her, there were actually many reasons behind it. Whether it’s a need to calm down, a fear of hurting feelings, or a desire to find a better solution, just because I choose to remain silent doesn’t mean I don’t care about you. Rather, it was me doing it for the sake of our relationship and hoping to find a better way to solve the problem.
