In a marriage, if your wife betrays you and becomes your husband, can you choose to be tolerant? I believe many people would end their marriages without hesitation, despite the jade forgiveness hat jokes on the Internet. However, when we really encounter such a thing, we can feel the suffering, which can be said to be a dilemma.
The end of a marriage means that a happy family is increasingly riddled with holes. What if I don’t get a divorce? Believe me, I always feel depressed inside. My husband, I once wanted to divorce, and I felt relieved, but seeing my wife’s hard begging and the unborn child, my husband, I decided to give my lover another chance, and finally fought for my love.
Are these tolerant wives who cheat on their husbands happy in the end? With that in mind, we now visited three cuckold hubbys to hear what they had to say.
The first person interviewed was Teacher Sun. Mr. Sun has an eldest daughter who is already in elementary school. The day he found out that his wife was cheating on his friend, he was in despair. He wanted to get a divorce, but his wife knelt on the ground and tried her best to keep him and make sure it wouldn't happen again. Mr. Sun felt compassion. He thought of his proud wife in the past, but now she was humbled just to save them.
Mr. Sun does not want his children to lose their mother when they are young. Following his compounding style, his wife became better and better towards Mr. Sun, and she has been trying to make up for it. But Mr. Sun felt that his wife was not sincere, and he was very afraid that his wife would betray him again. Every day he would quietly look through his wife's cell phone. When his wife goes out alone, he will always think of her and even come out quietly to follow her a few times. Mr. Sun felt that he was very tired. If he had ended the marriage, it might have been easier now.
The second interviewer was Mr. Luo. Mr. Luo and his wife have been together for seventeen years, but they have survived the seven-year itch. On another unexpected business trip, Mr. Luo discovered that his lover and a young man had checked into a hotel. At that moment, his heart died and he planned to divorce. But his elders strongly opposed it. Looking at the old man, Mr. Luo chose tolerance.
However, later life situations make us feel sorry for ourselves. When two people are together, they can never get back that sweet feeling. His wife's affair made it difficult for Mr. Luo to trust him again. The two gradually walked toward passers-by, and the only person they came into contact with was the child. Every time, I only show an awkward smile when I see my child.
The third interviewee is Mr. Meng. It is not surprising that Mr. Meng and his wife had an affair. He pointed out that before marriage, you knew that his wife was a playboy and liked to play outside. However, since getting married, he has restrained himself a lot. He is not ready to divorce his lover. He feels that all women are the same and it is fake to always pursue perfection.
Mr. Meng’s current thinking is that everyone has his own way, and the relationship between husband and wife is nominal, just like a familiar stranger, face to faceSitting there, I had nothing to say. Only when I woke up from a dream did I realize that I was actually crying.
During marriage, when the wife was having an affair, she accidentally stabbed her husband in the heart, causing his death or injury. Just because my husband chooses to believe it doesn’t mean he has forgotten the pain. Some injuries cannot be repaired. Therefore, I would like to advise all wives here: if you don’t want to feel guilty for the rest of your life, don’t try extramarital affairs, don’t use temporary stimulation to change a lifetime of pain, and don’t use your own problems to punish the person you love most.
