In long-distance relationships, because we cannot see each other for a long time, we usually can only maintain the relationship through chatting. However, because the two parties in long-distance relationships live in different places and are exposed to different things, they will not be able to find common topics. And the chat can't go on. If things go on like this, it is easy for the relationship to fade away. What should we do in this situation?
Next, the editor will bring you a set of chat topics for long-distance relationships to tell everyone who wants to maintain a long-distance relationship. What topics can be talked about in love, so that everyone no longer worries about finding common topics.
1. Conduct in-depth emotional discussions and reflections
Long-distance relationships are actually similar to ordinary relationships. It's all a process of constant adjustment. Therefore, when you can't find a topic, you might as well have an in-depth discussion and reflection on the relationship between two people. This will not only help you get along faster, but also give you something to talk about.
Emotional discussion also includes emotional expression. When you can’t find a topic, turn to emotional expression, give the other person more encouragement and praise, express your love, and let the other person feel it. Reflection includes reflecting on the relationship status of the two people in the recent period, correcting the shortcomings, and indicating the direction of correction in the future. Only in this way can the long-distance relationship between the two people develop in a better direction.
2. Chat about what you did today? What do you plan to do tomorrow?
In long-distance relationships, there are few meetings, so Understanding what the other person does and plans to do every day is an essential chat topic. You won’t feel bored talking about such topics every day, because you are exposed to new things every day, and as you chat, you will find that the day has passed. If you can engage in such topics every day, it will be very beneficial to your relationship. of maintaining.
3. Talk about new things
What is new.
Some people will say that I just go to work every day, and there is nothing new or new opportunities. So please open your eyes, pay attention to the pedestrians on the road when crossing the zebra crossing, and slow down when eating. Look at the things around you, they are all different scenery for you.
If you really can’t see the scenery around you, then open your phone and browse Weibo, read the news, find out what you like, and find out what the other person likes recently. If you see interesting and meaningful things, you can tell them to each other.
4. Talk about daily life
You don’t look so energetic today. Do you have a cold? If you have something on your mind, let me help you solve it. The weather will cool down tomorrow, so you should wear more clothes. You have physical education class tomorrow, remember to drink plenty of water after exercise. At your class reunion tomorrow night, be sure to remember to drink less cold drinks and go back early. I'll be waiting for you here. When you truly love someone, you will naturally care about everything about them. This will not only give her a strong sense of security, but also make her feel dependent on you. I know that long-distance relationships are not easy. When I first wanted to write about this topic, I struggled for a long time because of the sentence "How can two people who really love each other have no topic?" But in fact, have you ever discovered that two people are together? The longer the relationship lasts, the less contact you will have with the other person, not because you no longer love me, but because the other person already knows a lot of things and there is no need to say anything.
5. Talking about the past
If two people in a long-distance relationship cannot find a topic to chat about, The entire chat will be boring and awkward, and a sense of distance will arise spontaneously. The two of them will also be suspicious of each other, "Does his (her) lack of words mean that he (she) doesn't love him anymore? Has he changed his mind?" etc. After a period of development, love will enter a dull period, and it will not be as passionate as it was at the beginning, because the essence of love is to return to dullness.
When two people can’t find a topic to talk about during the ordinary period, they might as well try to talk about the past. Memories are always beautiful. We all like each other's beautiful past. It is precisely because we remember this beauty in our hearts that we are reluctant to let go and are willing to persist. In the process of reminiscing about the past, two lovers in different places will have more experiences and insights. In the process of sharing, they can get closer to each other and eliminate the strangeness caused by not being able to find a topic.
Actually, there are many topics for chatting in long-distance relationships. For example, you tell the other person what delicious food you ate today. Although you can’t eat it together, you can seduce the other person and wait until you meet to go together or let the other person comment. You may also be paying attention to the other person's weather changes when you buy new things. If it's going to rain or cool down, remind him early and make thoughtful preparations. These are all good topics for maintaining a long-distance relationship.
