Even if the wife at home is good-looking and virtuous, there are still men who cannot restrain their desire to cheat. Well-known ones include Liu Qiangdong, the beauty who does not know his wife, Zhang Yuqi’s ex-husband, Ma Yili’s ex-husband article...
< p style="text-align: center;">The Coolidge Effect and Infidelity
In most mammals, for a period of time after coitus, even if the original partner is nearby , and no more sex. This stage is called the sexual refractory period. The length of the period varies depending on the type of animal and the surrounding environment. Some may last a few minutes, while others may last a few hours or days. However, if a male animal is given a new female in estrus after he has had sex, his refractory period will be greatly shortened, and he may even start having sex again immediately.
For the continuation of the species, humans have to be dominated by the Coolidge effect-the instinct of continuous reproduction. But in modern civilization, couples who enter into a marriage contract need to remain loyal to each other and are not allowed to have sexual relations with other people of the opposite sex, otherwise it will be cheating.
As a result, a conflict arises between civilization and instinct. The Coolidge effect makes people have the desire to cheat, but civilized morality inhibits this desire. That is to say, on the one hand, we want to work hard to be dedicated people; on the other hand, we accept the control of ancient genes and want to have relationships with more members of the opposite sex.
How men can avoid cheating
1. Abide by the rules of marriage, be strict with yourself, and let reason prevail Desire, since you have chosen to marry your wife, you must devote yourself to your single-mindedness and loyalty.
2. Keep things fresh with your wife - holiday gifts, regular travel, keeping distance, role-playing cosplay, both husband and wife will become more attractive...
3. Many people, both men and women, pay great attention to personal appearance before marriage, but after marriage, they become slovenly and slovenly. Women begin to become fat and haggard, and men begin to Couples who become greasy and unclean can easily dislike each other and have thoughts of cheating.
4. Sometimes men want to have an affair simply out of boredom, so they want to activate their pleasure points by seeking stimulation. Different observation angles lead to different observation results. The world you see is boring because your own lifestyle needs to change.
